Blog 14

I can speak from experience it is difficult to find balance in my professional, educational, and personal life. Prioritizing, being flexible, and a good support system is essential. One of my biggest concerns about getting and continuing my education was that I would miss out on special events or moments with my family because my schedule was too demanding. It has been a constant trial and error way of life but I've learned to roll with it and learn to adapt. This has been very difficult and painful at times but I continue to remind myself it will be worth it one day and I am setting an example for my child (soon to be children).
Another important thing to do is always find time for rest and recoup. It will keep you from burning out and giving in altogether.
Most of all I believe I am setting a good example for my daughter on the importance of getting her degree right out of high school in order to have more time with her family later. She is old that she will remember the late nights and weekends mom was up studying or doing homework.
Overall, it is up to us to determine what is most important and live accordingly.

Blog 13

I believe it is a strong sign of strength for a woman to admit she has a problem with alcohol or drugs. It's admitting to making a mistake and needing help. Too many people have too much pride to ever admit to that. I think women carry a heavier burden than men to stay mentally strong due to their responsibilities to families, career and friends. Also, I believe many women feel if they were to admit to any faults would be the same as admitting to being incompetent. Alcohol or drug addiction can take over a person's life and for a woman to feel that and still push herself to stand up and say I need help is the bravest action she can do for herself.
If there was less of a letter "A" attached to a woman's forehead for admitting to a problem many women may be more likely to come forward with their addiction and seek help.